I bought the Love Pain DVD as my 20 year old son was absolutely distraught after his girlfriend broke it off the other day.
He was miserable and sobbing and even said he felt like he was ill.
I have been using EFT a lot and all my children know it but I thought there might be something a little less cumbersome, so I decided to purchase the TFT Love Pain DVD.
While the DVD was downloading I opened the e-book that came with it and had him sit with me while I instructed him with the tapping points.
He started out at a 10 and by the time he had gotten to the under arm point he had already felt the intensity of his grief fade. When we were done with the protocol he was quite amazed and said “How does this stuff work?”
It had gone down to a 5. The next round we did included the gamut and it went to a 3, and the next round with the gamut and ending with the eye roll and it went to a 1 or 2.
He felt like he was cheating so I explained that it was not cheating, what it was doing was actually clearing the intense emotions to enable him to think and operate from a more rational perspective.
Once the DVD had downloaded and he made it bigger we watched it together. At the end he was still feeling some of the pain – I guess different aspects were coming up – so we did the protocol a few more times which bought his pain down to about a 2, having started at about a 10 – it was to do with just wanting to be with her. He was still a bit weepy when he went to bed and I went off to bed and found that I was feeling very tearful and sad for him, so I did the protocol a few times and it just melted away.
He has continued to use the tapping and I am really pleased and relieved to say that he is feeling enormous relief. He still feels the sadness a bit but it is not the gut/heart wrenching sadness that he was experiencing on Sunday, which is when she broke it off.
So, a great big hug and a thank you to Roger Callahan and I guess one cannot forget accolades to ‘God’, ‘The Universe’, whatever it is that makes the sun shine and the trees grow.